| Location | Stoke-on-trent |
| Age | 53 years |
| Cause of Death | Rare Heart Condition |
| Date of Birth | 11/03/1954 |
| Date of Death | 03/11/2007 |
| Visitors | 6,899 since 06/11/2007 |
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♥ Lynne Margaret Carter ♥
Fell asleep on 3rd Nov 2007
Age 53
Stoke-On-Trent
Beloved wife of Jim ♥
Cherished Mum to Lisa,
Richard,
Charlene & Ben ♥
Devoted Nanny to Kiara ♥
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★ ★ ★ 11/03/54 - 03/11/07 ★ ★★
☆Always loved★Forever remembered★Eternally missed ☆
I lost my lovely Mum in the early hours of Saturday 3rd November 2007. Mum had not been ill and was
fit and healthy. She had been to work all day Friday, had tea with my dad and went to bed at around
12am. She never woke up. I feel as though my heart has been smashed into pieces, it is such a shock
and I will miss and remember my Mum every day of my life. She was too young to be taken and without
warning. (The results of mums post mortem show as sudden death due to idiopathic myocardial
fibrosis.). I will miss our chats, our time together and will always be sad that Mum will miss my
daughter growing up. Mum adored Kiara and her face would light up whenever she saw her. I am
heartbroken for my dad who truly loved Mum with all his heart, I am sad for my younger brother and
sister,Ben & Charlene, who were only 16 and 18 when Mum was taken away. I cry for my Brother,
Richard, who misses his Mum so much.My Mum was the constant light in my life, always there for me,
always trying to help. I will always think of my Mum and be grateful that I was lucky to have had a
Mum like I did and for the time that we did have together.
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Mum was a fantastic wife, loving mother and devoted to my 4 year old daughter. The only way in which
I can justify our loss is to think how lucky we were to have been loaned such a precious angel from
heaven. I know that life will never be the same again, but I will live life how mum taught me and
not to take anything for granted. Life is too precious and short and you need to take every chance.
I am grateful that Mum did not suffer in any way and would not of known, but I am heartbroken to
have lost her so suddenly.
Mum, I love you so very much. I never told you how much.
Your daughter
Lisa x
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♥ Happy little Memories
Go flitting though my mind,♥
And in my thoughts and memories,
I always seem to find,
The picture of you face,
The memory of your touch,
And all the little things,
I come to love so much.
You cannot go beyond my thoughts
Or leave my love behind.
Because i keep you in my heart,
And forever on my mind!
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* Mum, I love you and cannot believe that you are gone. I wish that I had chance to say goodbye and
to tell you how much you mean to me. I will miss and remember you every single day of my life.
Your heartbroken daughter ♥
Lisa xxxx
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Thank you to everyone who takes the time to visit my mums page. Your candles and messages mean so
much. Thank you for your support.
Lisa xxx
Thank you to everyone for your continued support - I am sorry that I have fallen so far behind with
my candles, but you are in my thoughts and I am grateful for the time that you all take to visit my
Mums page.
**********THANK YOU TO EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU **********
Two Twinkling Stars ~~~~
I Looked Up To The Sky Last Night
And Saw Two Twinkling Stars,
I Thought About The Distance
Of Jupiter And Mars.
I Thought How Far Was Heaven
Was It Further Than These Two
I Wondered Just How Far It Was
To Gods Garden And To You.
I Know One Day I'll Find Out
Just How Far I'll Need To Travel
I Know That God One Day For Me
This Mystery Will Unravel
Until That Day I'll Miss You
Every Hour That I Live Through
I'll Miss You Till The Day Comes
When I'll Finally Be With You.
Copyright� Ingrid Aspey
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♥ From Water Bug to Dragonfly ♥
(Tessa Wilkinson)
The bottom of the pond is muddy and dark
There is fear of the unknown
There is loneliness as things change
There is the desperation of being left behind
Not knowing, not understanding
Watching and waiting
Then the journey comes
Up the stem
What waits beyond?
Sunlight
Freedom
Dancing together in joy with those who went before
And who will come after.
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Mum - Always missed xxxx
Mum,
2 long years without you. Sometimes it feels as though you have been away for so long and then other times only like yesterday. I miss you so much and it does not get any easier - I just think that you learn to cope with it, however, I don't think I will ever accept that you are gone. I see you in my dreams most nights - are you trying to speak to me? Other times, my dreams are like a flashback of my life and you are always there.
You would be so proud of Ben and Charlene. They have had to grow up and at times, they can frustrate me with how they treat Dad and don't help him - but I try to remember how young they were when you were taken. Richard is doing well and I am sure you are pleased with how his life is turning out - I am sure you intervened in some way (you will know what I mean). Kiara is amazing and you would be so, so proud. She is so clever but has a heart of gold and always talks about her Nanny. Wise head on very young shoulders that one. She keeps me going.She is my silver lining in a very dark cloud.
Lastly, Dad - still worries me, but he does seem to have better days. Sadly is a shadow of the person he was, but sometimes you see flashes of the "old" dad - it is like the sun shining through. I love each and every one of them with all my heart.
You were an amazing Mum and the hole left in my life is huge. I am eternally grateful that I was so lucky to have you in my life and I try to dwell on the good times as there were lots. Everything in my life reminds me of you, you are in my thoughts often throughout the day. I know that you have spoken to Charlene through a clairvoyent and I promise I will do the same when I can finally face up to the fact that you are not here.
I hope that where ever you are - you have found peace and are happy.You were a big part of my world Mum and that has gone forever. But a huge Thank you for being my Mum and for being the best that there could be. No sacrifice was ever too much for you and you gave so much to your family.
Goodbye for now Mum. Please give me a sign that you are close by - sometimes I need to know this. Look in on Dad and the kids today and give them a hug.
Love and miss you so, so much.
Forever in my heart - always xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Nanny
to nanny i am missing you more and more each day i loved it when you where here and when you always gave me sweets and toys love kiara xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
♥ The Only Way ♥
(Tessa Wilkinson)
• The only way we can be protected from the pain of loss and the grief we feel, is by having never loved.
• How empty our lives would be, and what a lot of wonderful shared moments we would have missed, if we had not known.
• So, although what we feel at the moment is terrible, we must try to remember that it is because we have all been privileged to have known and loved, that we now feel the pain and sadness.
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Prayer of Faith.
We trust that beyond absence there is a presence.
That beyond the pain there can be healing.
That beyond the brokenness there can be wholeness.
That beyond the anger there may be peace.
That beyond the hurting there may be forgiveness.
That beyond the silence there may be the word.
That beyond the word there may be understanding.
That through understanding there is love.
Anon
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Quietly I Weep
By Lyndie Sorenson
Although I seem to hide it
My sorrow's still so deep
Missing you in silence
Quietly I weep
I long to see your smile
Hear your laughter, hug you tight
But you're no longer with me
You've headed toward the light
I'm sure you are quite happy
Here on earth I miss you so
Asking that same question
Why was it you that had to go?
I am sure there is an answer...
One that might make sense
When others offer reasons
I'm just on the defence
If they could understand me
Know how hard life is with grief
Just hold my hand and listen...
That would be a great relief
Although I seem to hide it
My sorrow's still so deep
Missing you in silence...
Quietly I weep
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♥ Only we who grieve ♥
♥ Tis only we who grieve
♥ They do not leave
♥ They are not gone
♥ They look upon us still
♥ They walk among the valleys now
♥ They stride upon the hill
♥ Their smile is in the summer sky
♥ Their grace is in the breeze
♥ Their memories whisper in the grass
♥ Their calm is in the trees
♥ Their light is in the winter snow
♥ Their tears are in the rain
♥ Their merriment runs in the brook
♥ Their laughter in the lane
♥ Their gentleness is in the flowers
♥ They sigh in autumn leaves
♥ They do not leave
♥ They are not gone
♥ tis only we who grieve.
♥ Author unknown ♥
♥ I Believe ♥
(Written By Skip Ewing and Donny Keyes Copyright 2002)
(Song performed by Diamond Rio)
Every now and then
Soft as breath upon my skin
I feel you come back again
And it's like you haven't been gone
A moment from my side
Like the tears were never cried
Like the hands of time are holding you and me
And with all my heart I'm sure
We're closer than we ever were
I don't have to hear or see
I've got all the proof I need
There are more than angels watching over me
I believe, I believe
That when you die your life goes on
It doesn't end here when you're gone
Every soul is filled with light
It never ends and if I'm right
Our love can even reach across eternity
I believe, I believe
Forever you're a part of me
Forever in the heart of me
I will hold you even longer if I can
The people who don't see the most
Say that I believe in ghosts
And if that makes me crazy
Then I am
'Cause I believe, oh I believe
There are more than angels watching over me
I believe, oh I believe
Every now and then
Soft as breath upon my skin
I feel you come back again
And I believe
'Cause I believe, oh I believe.
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☼ The Sea and the Beach ☼
(Tessa Wilkinson)
The sea seems to illustrate pain and sorrow so well
It comes in and goes out
For a while it is there, overwhelming, covering everything
Then slowly the tide turns and it withdraws
For a while we can see the beauty of the shells, the seaweed
We can rejoice in the patterns in the sand
We can feel the corrugated ripples under our feet
Alive to what is around, and beyond
But then the tide turns and again it is all washed away, all overwhelmed
We feel like the crashing of the waves on rocks
Raw and out of control
Full of anger and rage
Battered and bruised
Tossed about like flotsam floating wherever we are thrown
There are so many questions. Why now? Why her?
But no answers
Then the sea calms and gently the waves lap the rocks
We are soothed and the inner turmoil is calmed
In time we can learn to move up the beach as the tide comes in
Out of its reach
Not to be overwhelmed
The pain is still there, but in control
We can recognise the pain
Revisiting the sadness
Acknowledging how much the person is missed
We learn to turn away and look to the future
Knowing the person will always be part of us
Always loved and always remembered.
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